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Showing posts with label Structure. Show all posts
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Sunday, March 24, 2013

Day 6: Meltdowns, Snow, & Countdown


Woke up to Sherbert doing her I have to go whine, which set me in motion because I really was not looking forward to cleaning her cage.  My morning was a rocky start not only where we late getting to the faculty which led to me feeling off kilter because I had to reroute myself and get over to the class site once I got there and got my bearings I felt better and was able to focus on what we were doing.  I have to say Sherbert was on her game this morning.  We did one track but she was on top of the footsteps that Jonathan and his friend took this morning going right to them and having that look on her face like so mom, I found him where are my dogs (hotdogs) and my tennis ball.

The DeZarn girls and Sherbert
Today was a little awkward for me because I was in a transition mode due to circumstances Jonathan’s sitter had to return home and it meant I was handling Jonathan & Sherbert. Can we say busy bodies but I am happy that the families here have bonded because I had some moms & dads stepping in to help when necessary at one point we had grandparents involved with the chaos of the kids. We began to work on behavior disruption today which includes lap as well as over which can be a large help when Jonathan is in meltdown mode or coming out of seizure mode because it’s deep pressure. 

So here is the fun part of it all or at least now that I look back over the day I think that but it was no funny or laughing matter while it was going on. We were back in the mall today and we were doing inside tracking and tethering. Now remember yesterday when I wrote about the chaos that J caused in the stores with tethering. Well today was no different Mister Brown went for ham and just cut a fool  at first I attempted to ignore it and act like nothing was going on but that lasted all of about thirty minutes because I could feel the tension headache forming behind my eyes and I can only imagine the scene we were causing.  Sooo I untethered them and that still did not satisfy him so we went through a three-hour period of an upset and temper tantrum child and a dog who did not know whether to stay by Mom’s side or to try to console his boy because his boy was simply in fight or flight mode. After a few moms stepped in and attempted to help me we finally got an idea on how to pull off a tracking situation in the mall and JcPenny’s of all places but it worked out because we made it as fun as possible.

J & Sherbert in play mode
Once back at the hotel I was hoping for a quiet moment I was even willing to let J take a quick nap for a quiet moment but he had other plans so I let Sherbert and him play for a little while to see who would tired down first. Let us just say as I write this blog he is up making noise and knocking on the wall.  Here is hope that the night manager does not call up here tonight for his mayhem…

Cannot wait to share with you tomorrow’s adventure we are official on countdown until time to go home T minus 5 days…

~Truly Blessed,
Misherald “Missy”, Jonathan “JB” & Sherbert “SD” Brown

Thursday, January 10, 2013

Overcoming Obstacles Even Personal Ones

Graduating college was always a goal for me but never did I realize how hard that obstacle was going to be. After leaving the Army with an injury, I started noticing things about myself things that well just did not make sense.  After carefully research and a lot of self-evaluation, I decided to see my pediatrician, (Yeah I was over 21 seeing a kid’s doctor ROFL let us not judge). It was rather interesting to find out I had Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder better known as ADHD.  Yes, it can go undiagnosed as well as it is very common in adults some famous as well as well-established people in history have had it.  My family just thought I was a busy body never did they realize it was not that it was something within me that kept me in this state of hyperactivity. The reason it was not found out in the Army was because I had a structured life and that structure life is what helped me stay focus. I write this particular blog today to help people realize that no matter what your circumstances are goals are attainable.

Here I was a single mom with ADHD and a new baby who had a whole set of special needs of his own while I knew medical school was out the question I still wanted my degree in something to show myself that I still had a chance.  For me that opportunity came with online college the day Jonathan came home from the hospital had I began my research and within 2 days I was enrolled in Kaplan University as a Business undergraduate and I was starting completely over not transferring any credits.  I set goals throughout the whole process I was determined not to allow this program to take more than two years. I’m proud to say I missed my deadline by only six months and that’s because let’s just say I don’t know how to simply let things go. So I failed a class because I couldn’t see eye to eye with an instructor. 

After achieving that I wanted more I was a thriving entrepreneur with a company that was doing well and I was itching to get more in tune with the business side of life so I changed things up in graduate school and I decided to get my MBA but to challenge myself and get a Project Management Degree. This time I gave myself another 3 years to complete the courses.  I am happy to say I started my MBA in 2008.  I did take a year off to take care of Jonathan who had to have some major surgeries during 2009. However when I restarted in 2010 at Strayer University not only did, I finish in 2 years but I also graduated with honors and within the top 20% of my class.  

I was competing against myself and no one else I had goals and I wanted to achieve those goals. Therefore, before you let someone tell you what you cannot do tell yourself what you can do. You just have to want to and you have to know yourself well enough to know how to achieve it.  My way was online school with structure that may not be the case for others. My redeeming quality was a PDA, a schedule, and simple the energy to just do it.

Let me blow your mind here is a few famous people who had or have ADHD: 
Jim Carrey       Prince Charles (yes that Prince Charles of England)     Bill Cosby        
  Tom Cruise            Walt Disney    Dwight D Eisenhower           Danny Glover        
Whoopi Goldberg                       Magic Johnson                        Michael Jordan                   
  Anna Eleanor Roosevelt                     Will Smith                         Steven Spielberg
  
                    “Tell me and I’ll forget. Show me and I’ll remember. Involve me and I’ll understand.”
                                                                      - Confucius  

~Truly Blessed,


Misherald "Missy" & Jonathan "JB" Brown